Today is Matt-O’s birthday. One of my favorite days of the year. A day celebrating my adorable husband. This year is extra special for few reasons. The first being that this is the first birthday celebration of his where he is my husband. Second reason being that we are in his home town at his parents lake house with all of his friends and family. It is the perfect setting for a birthday.

I don’t like to say I am obsessed with my husband, because that sounds crazy. But I kinda am. But not in a creepy, crazy way. In like a, I am so lucky I found someone so awesome to chill out with for the rest of my journey here on earth with, it kinda makes me obsessed way. He is the funniest person I know, he is my #1 cheerleader in every thing I do. He is respectful, supportive, thoughtful, great between the sheets and most importantly, beyond loyal to myself and our family.

People say you should marry your best friend. Which I do agree with. But you should also marry someone you are slightly obsessed with as well. Someone you can be as weird as you want to in front. Someone who commits to life with you, not just commits to you. Someone who makes your insides smile even when you have seen them for DAYS in a row. Someone who makes you mad but also makes you look forward to make up sex. It is for the rest of your life, and that shit is gonna be long if you are lucky, so make sure you are a little obsessed. It makes it so much more fun.

So I am saluting my main squeeze today, on his special day. He made me a mom, a wife, a shitty housewife and the luckiest gal in the world.