I Feel Bad For You…

Dear Mom with crying kids in public,

                I feel bad for you. I know deep down inside you have a ton of anger towards your kids right now and you probably want to scream at them at the top of your lungs. I know you think everyone is staring at you and judging. Sadly…they are. But I am not. Fuck those people. Do what you need to do. Don’t worry, your cranky toddler is not going to ruin anyone’s day but yours. You are doing great.

Love, The Shitty Housewife

 

Dear Mom of formula fed baby,

                I feel bad for you. You are being judged for how you are feeding your child and I know you feel bad about yourself because of it. You get dirty looks from other moms as you pull out the powder and mix in that water. Ya know what…fuck that. You are a bad ass. You made the best choice for you and your family and you NEVER EVER EVER need to justify that to anyone. Shake that shit up and let that baby eat up!!! You are doing great.

Love, The Shitty Housewife

 

Dear Mom of only one child,

                I feel bad for you. You are asked in almost every conversation when you are going to have another kid. I know you want to look at those people and tell them they are crazy. One little jerk is enough. And it is! If you decide one and done fucking own it and don’t ever feel like there needs to be a reason. You are doing great.

Love, The Shitty Housewife

 

Dear Mom of many kids,

                I feel bad for you. People glare at you like you are the craziest bitch alive. “You have THAT many kids?!!!’ ‘You are done right???’ No asshole, I am not and every time you ask if I am done, I am going to go home, screw my man and get pregnant just to show you I can! (well not really, but you catch my drift.) Since when did having a big family become such a BAD thing. When all those kids grow up, they are goin to be surrounded by siblings…BEST THING EVER. So fuck them. You are doing great.

Love, The Shitty Housewife

 

Dear Truly Single Mom, 

                I feel bad for you. But you know what. YOU ARE A FUCKING GODDESS QUEEN WHO DESERVES A MEDAL!!!! Being alone in a parenting is something I cannot even wrap my brain around. You are doing it and making life for this human all by yourself. You are truly a perfect person in every step you take. You are doing great,

Love, The Shitty Housewife

 

Dear Not yet a mom,

                I feel bad for you. If you are trying to have a baby, you are so sick of seeing everyone else experience it. You want and deserve it really bad. Go ahead and be angry, but please know your time is coming. It is. I know it and I believe it, so you should too. You are doing great.

Love, The Shitty Housewife

 

Dear Never going to be a mom because that shit is for the birds,

                I feel bad for you. But why??? Do you girl! Fuck those people who say you need to have kids. And every time they ask you when you are going to have them….bust out that birth control and SCREAM never. Women do not have to have kids to be a member of society. Parenting is a choice. Be proud of your choice. You are doing great.

Love, The Shitty Housewife

 

Dear Mom who has lost a child,

                I feel bad for you. Please feel all the feelings you need to feel and no that whatever kinda mom we others are, we have your back. You are surviving and that is all you need to do. Survive and somehow find a way to heal. You are doing great.

Love, The Shitty Housewife

 

Dear Dog Mom,

                I feel bad for you. People look at you and think you are trying to replace the idea of a child with a dog. When in reality that is the furthest thing from the truth. You love that dog and that dog loves you. Don’t let anyone shame you for that! Ever. Dogs are the best!! You are doing great.

Love, The Shitty Housewife

 

Here is what I am saying…. We are all doing the best we can. Whatever care giving role we are doing. Whether it is for ourselves, a child, a pet. We have committed to that and we should really stop making anyone feel bad about how or what their role is. When did being mean to someone else on the way they parent become okay….IT ISN’T at all. So let’s embrace it and embrace each other. I want to stop feeling bad for people. We are all doing more than great. We are all doing Fan-Fucking-Tastic.

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